Top 5 DO’s
1. Do journal. Start small, write a memory a day.
2. Do think you’re interesting. If you don’t, no one else will.
3. Do talk to people. Talking to people who were there helps to jog your memory.
4. Do get used to talking about yourself. It’s your story, you are the main character.
5. Do remember, it’s not about you. You are a character, but there should be a greater point.
Top 5 DON’Ts
1. Don’t include every single moment since the day you were born–it’s boring.
2. Don’t think you have to tell everything in chronological order–it’s boring.
3. Don’t be afraid to tell the truth. It’s often far more interesting than fiction.
4. Don’t worry about hurting people’s feelings–it’s bound to happen anyway.
5. Don’t become a slave to the truth. It’s okay to misremember–it’s bound to happen anyway.
Top 5 MUST HAVE’s
1. An interesting point of view/perspective–boring isn’t the book anyone wants to read
2. Something to say–everyone has a story, but not everyone has a point
3. A storyteller’s spirit–grammar can be fixed, but there has to be a good story
4. The ability to let things go–it will never be perfect
5. A spark of creativity
KEMPS’ Golden Memoir Rule
A good memoir starts with a great story!
Everyone has a story, but not everyone has a great story. The kind of story that sparks other people’s imaginations and makes them think. The kind of story that crosses boundaries, inspires and stirs. The kind of story that’s simply interesting and makes you want to know more. A good memoir starts with a great story, one that speaks to more people than just you and contributes something to its readers. If your story is about you and for you, you don’t have a memoir–you have a personal accounting, a journal. To create a memoir, you need to find the connection between you and your reader and pull them into your life so they can see the world just a little bit differently when they turn the final page.
Writing a memoir is not for everyone. But don’t let lack of training or unruly thoughts stand in your way if you know you have something to say. There are so many ways to get your story onto the pages that readers are yearning to turn.
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